by Kimberly Hill | Feb 3, 2022 | Dressing, Podcasts
When you wake up in the morning, what do you put on? Do you slip into something comfortable that allows you to hide from the world and blend in, or do you dress in a way that represents who you are? Tanner and I talk about the misconception men have about dressing well and why it’s important to take pride in your style and appearance. Dressing well doesn’t mean loud colours along with an ostentatious personality – for some, it may – but style is when you wear clothes that make you feel confident and empowered. Don’t underestimate the power of your appearance and the impact this will have on all areas of your life.
Tanner Guzy is a men’s style coach, speaker, and author of The Appearance of Power. He and his wife have five kids and are based in Utah.
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by Kimberly Hill | Jan 28, 2022 | Dating, Podcasts
How are you guided in life? What allows you to make the decisions that are right for you? When you are struggling in dating, relationships or with your emotions, what tools do you have to help you through? Today I had the pleasure of chatting with Dr. Joe Martin where he shared with me how he talks to God and how it guides him to make the right decisions.
Dr. Joe Martin is an award-winning international speaker, author, educator, and certified builder of men
Dr. Martin has spoken for more than 750 businesses, organizations, churches, colleges & universities, and K-12 schools/districts.
He’s also the host of “Real Men Connect,” the #1 top-rated podcast for Christian Men on Apple Podcasts that focuses on mentoring, training, and disciplining men on how to be amazing husbands, awesome fathers, and extraordinary leaders.
You can learn more about Dr. Joe and his work here.
If you’re interested in learning more about Kimberly and working with her, please book a complimentary conversation here.
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by Kimberly Hill | Jan 20, 2022 | Dating, Podcasts
How do you attract the right kind of person to you? How do you date successfully? It sometimes feels difficult to understand where to go and how to meet people, especially if you’re not loving the online dating game! So have a listen as Shane and I talk about a fantastic piece of advice on how to meet the right people for you and have fun at the same time.
Shane Kohler has worked in personal development and transformation for over a decade. He has personally coached over 100 people, helped dozens of couples bring their relationship back from the brink of collapse, and created a framework to help singles consciously create a lifelong, committed partnership with their ideal partner.
He co-founded The Living Relationship with his beautiful wife Fatima and their passion revolves around helping people create the love that most will only ever dream about.
You can learn more about Shane and his work here.
If you’re interested in learning more about Kimberly and working with her, please book a complimentary conversation here.
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by Kimberly Hill | Jan 13, 2022 | Podcasts, Relationships
Join Kevin and I talk about arrogance versus confidence, redefining the term Alpha male and chatting candidly about purpose and cognitive mastery development.
Kevin Matthew Aillaud spent over a decade in the fitness industry, training individuals on how to achieve peak physical fitness. Recognizing a gap between the mindset and capability of athletes, he turned to neuroscience, psychology, philosophy, social dynamics, and cellular biology to find a new way to coach his athletes. The results were more than he expected.
Having come from a childhood of abuse, abandonment, and neglect and an early adulthood of trauma where shame and guilt ran his life, his research did more to shift his own mindset into that of an influential and irresistible man of confidence than he ever could have imagined. As his own personal growth and development skyrocketed, he passed on his knowledge to his clients who have found uncanny success with women and dating, business and wealth, and health and fitness.
Kevin created The Alpha Male Coach brand and his purpose is to define the term Alpha Male and, through the process of causal coaching, to show men the path to limitless success and cognitive evolution. He is a public and keynote speaker, one-on-one causal coach, and author.
You can learn more about Kevin and his work here.
If you’re interested in learning more about Kimberly and working with her, please book a complimentary conversation here.
You can also find out more information on her website here.
Need help setting up your online dating profile? Join my FREE class “Master Your Online Dating Profile” here.
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by Kimberly Hill | Jan 4, 2022 | Blogs, Dating
So, you made it to 2022. Welcome!
If you’re still standing, got a roof over your head and friends around you, you are one of the lucky ones! 2021 was no piece of cake, and if you were also trying to date on top of a changing societal and political landscape, social distancing and so forth, good on you. Now, let’s put that year behind us!
Reaching 2022 and being single means you have a wide-open canvas for creating a romantic life this year. And after a year of reflection, it’s time to kick-ass in the love department.
Here are a few tips to get you started:
- Know exactly what kind of relationship you want to create. Before you date in 2022, make sure you have a clear idea of the type of relationship you want to have. If you’ve been married before, are you looking to find something more casual or are you searching for something serious? Do you see wedding bells in your future, or something different? Get crystal clear on the type of relationship you want to create before you begin your search. You’ll save yourself from distraction and disappointment.
- Be open to new people and experiences. Even though you’re clear on the relationship you want to have, make sure you’re not being closed-minded as to who might fill that role. Stubbornness or pickiness won’t get you very far. Locking yourself into a “type” can do more harm than good and gets you focusing on the wrong qualities. While you might prefer petite women with brown hair, a tall blonde might be the woman that surprises you. Remember, it’s about connecting with someone that shares similar values to you and also shares a similar vision for the relationship.
- Mr. Nice Guy is Out and Mr. Assertive Is In – Way In! Nice guys don’t get very far with dating. And it’s not because there is anything wrong with being a nice or kind individual, it’s because men that lack strong values or boundaries get taken advantage of. These kinds of men are left wondering what they did wrong when they tried to do everything right! It’s all part of the problem. Having strong boundaries and respect for yourself is attractive. Knowing what you want and going after it, now that’s sexy. Assertive is in. Mr. Nice Guy is out.
- Get Back to the Basics. It’s 2022, and everything feels so complicated with dating. How often do I text? What do I say? How many dates should we go on? How many apps should I use? You can easily get overwhelmed with information and start doubting yourself. Keep things simple. Don’t worry about doing everything perfectly. If you want a rule of thumb, message your date a few times a week maximum, go on a date once a week, and be courteous and forthright. The more complicated you make it, the more complicated it will become.
- Don’t Forget Those Old-Fashioned Introductions. Dating apps are constantly changing and evolving. Remember, apps are designed to return money to investors first, and if you happen to find love while paying for your subscription, then hooray! You’re one of the lucky ones! So this year, brush up on the old-fashioned way of dating – meeting someone in person. Dating apps are no excuse to hide inside and avoid new hobbies, sports or getting out of the house. This year, set some intentions to speak to more attractive women in public, make sure to ask your friends to make introductions and get vocal about your search!
Kimberly Hill is a leading Dating & Relationship Coach For Men, and Host of The Self-Confidence Project Podcast. You can follow her on Instagram @kimberlyninahill. For more information, go to www.kimberlyninahill.com.
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